In an effort to keep in better inform and equip parents, I've decided to start a weekly student ministry blog.  Here I'll post the latest news as well as some resources to better help you lead your child spiritually.  Sometimes I'll write these devotionals, but othertimes these will simply be articles I will repost which you might find helpful. 

HALLOWEEN OUTREACH EVENT - October 26th

Mark your calendars for Sunday Night October 26th.  We're planning a large Halloween cookout outreach event.  More details will be available in the coming dates, but SAVE THE DATE!

FIND US ONLINE

Our student ministry posts weekly content in three different places on the internet

FACEBOOK

Our Facebook page is where we post videos and pictures from events.  Likewise this is where we will make more daily updates about events coming in the next few days.

facebook.com/theexchangehutto

INSTAGRAM

Our INSTAGRAM account is used to post pictures from events as they happen.  We regularly will post 1 or more pictures during an event as it takes place.

instagram.com/huttobiblestudentministry

SERMON.NET

Sermon.net hosts our weekly messages from our high school class.  I have been using sermon.net to host messages for about five years.  So there's a rather large archieve of old talks on there.

sermon.net/theexchange

COST AND CALENDAR 2014-2015

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

Each week I would like to share an article, video or an idea which may help you parent better.  You may agree or disagree with some of the points, but it's something to think about!

Here is an article on the importance of having more than once influence in your child's life.  

WIDEN THE CIRCLE

Written by Reggie Joiner and Carey Niewhof

Parenting can be intimidating, and you weren’t meant to do it alone.  Regardless of your stage of parenting, here’s a promise: A time will come when your children will need another adult in their lives besides you. So. . .

Widening the circle involves pursuing strategic relationships for your son or daughter.

Parents should become intentional about finding spiritual leaders and mentors for their kids. Every son and daughter needs other adults in their lives who will say things that reflect what a parent would say.

One of the smartest things moms and dads can do is to participate in a church where they can find the right kind of adult influences for their kids.

I have observed a lot of teenagers. From the time they hit middle school, they start moving away from home. They are not doing anything wrong; it’s just the way they are made. They are becoming independent, and they begin redefining themselves through the eyes of other people who are not in their immediate family.

The older they get, the more important it is for them to have other voices in their lives saying the same things but in a different way. Teenage sons and daughters need to have other voices speaking into their worlds. Parents who do not understand this principle have forgotten what it was like to be a teenager.

I cannot count the times my kids would quote something a teacher, our student pastor, or a coach had said. They would act like it was the first time they had ever heard it. I wanted to blurt out, “I have been telling you that for sixteen years!” They were hearing it in a different way because they were at a different stage, and they just needed a different voice.

Widening the circle transitions your child from a “me” approach to a “we” approach.

When you widen the circle, you not only recognize the need for others to influence your children, but also the need for your children to be a part of something that is much larger than just your family. A wider circle gives them not only a place to belong, but a significant role to engage in a bigger story.

Seth Godin makes this observation: “Human beings can’t help it; we need to belong. One of the most powerful of our survival mechanisms is to be part of a tribe, to contribute to (and take from) a group of likeminded people.”

Don’t miss this point. The right community is not only important because of what it gives to your children, but also because of what it requires from your children. Children need more than just a family that gives them unconditional acceptance and love; they need a tribe that gives them a sense of belonging and significance.

Something powerful happens when you partner with other influences who desire to instill a sense of mission into the hearts of your children. You give them a different view of their place in the world, and you transfer a different kind of passion to them that your family alone cannot give them.

Next Steps:

• Look for a church that values communityWork with other leaders to find opportunities for your kids to serve
• Search for mentors in your community
• God never intended life to be lived in isolation, and what’s true of individuals is also true of families. We have been called to live as part of a much wider circle and God-engineered community to help all of us parent beyond our capacity.